Reclaim your life from porn addiction.

Make your instincts work for you. Not the other way around.


Introducing our free month-long group accountability program.
Cohort 8 runs from Oct 29 - Nov 30.
Registration closes on Thu, Oct 28. 4 spots left.

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Testimonials

Student

"The Moai program plants the seed of habit reformation into your mind -- and even if you don't see the results and tall, green stock you're chasing, it's still taking root and subtly encouraging you to keep trying -- and reminding you that it is possible to create change for oneself."

- P

Student

"I feel much better about myself now that I have adopted healthier habits and become more productive. I still have aways to go, but I am at a much better spot than one month ago."

- M

Student

"My brain feels less foggy and more relaxed. Learning to be kind to myself in the face of failure has been a HUGE step in allowing myself to grow and develop better habits."

- M

Who this program is for

First-Timers

Do you have an unhealthy relationship with porn and want to do something about it?

Relapsers

Are you always unable to follow through and are looking for more accountability this time around?

Seasoned Vets

Have you had long streaks, but want the motivation and support of a like-minded community?

Be more confident, focused and energized

Experience a better life in 5 weeks

Boosted Confidence

Believe in yourself and be free from other's expectations.

Sharper Focus

Rise above the "brain fog" and see things more clearly.

Higher Energy Levels

Expend your energy towards the things that matter.

How it works

1 Meet your Cohort

After registration, you are anonymously placed into a “Moai” - your intimate cohort of 4 people. You are each other’s source of motivation, accountability and shared learning. There's nothing quite like growing together!

2 Follow your Challenge

Every week, you follow your own challenge and share your insights with your Moai via a quick, guided questionnaire. If you don't do this, your card is charged to charity (not us). Skin in the game!

3 Finish!

You are now a changed person! Pay us what you think it was worth after the program ends and only if you see results. We only make money if you succeed.

Our Principles

Aligned Incentives

We only make money if you succeed. There is no conflict of interest, unlike other business models, e.g ads, endorsements, affiliate links. They are rewarded by consumption, not action.

Bias towards Action

Content is deliberately sparse in the program. The emphasis is on execution, not education. Quality content is no longer the bottleneck - the lack of action is.

Tighten the Feedback Loop

Writing is thinking. The check-ins force you to reflect on what worked and what didn’t. By articulating your learnings, you discover actionable advice for the next week. This yields compounding results over time.

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Dates

Runs for a month. October 29 - November 30.

Time Commitment

15 minutes per (written) weekly check-in. Due every Sunday.

Stake

You will be charged $100 to charity (not us) - only if you don't submit all the check-ins.

Registration is now closed. Join the waitlist below.

FAQs

What is the time commitment? The written weekly check-ins are due every Sunday and take 15 minutes to complete. That’s it! There are no video calls or live sessions. During the week, you’ll be following your challenge and occasionally sharing your progress (asynchronously via message) with your Moai.
Why is a credit card required to register? The program is free to join, but we need your credit card to donate to charity on your behalf ONLY if you don't complete the program. This increases your chance of success by 6x and ensures that everyone in your group is serious.
What if I check in consistently, but fail to reach my goals? Will I be charged? Nope. As long as you complete all the check-ins on time, you won’t be charged. We believe in self-compassion, understanding and self-love over anything else, including hitting external goals. Sustainable growth and success not only starts with those things, but it requires them.
Can I be anonymous? Absolutely! There won't be any video or voice calls. You can also set an anonymous nickname when you join your Moai.
How is this different from a course? The program is focused on application, not theory. There will be very limited content and just enough structure for participants to grow at their own pace. It is the best of both worlds - the community of a class paired with the independence of self-learning.
What if I have questions or sticking points along the way? Ask away to your Moai - that’s what they’re there for!
What is a Moai? A Moai is a social support group. The concept originated in Okinawa, Japan - it means "meeting for a common purpose" in Japanese. According to research, they are considered one of the leading factors of the longevity of lifespan of the Okinawan people, making the region among the highest concentration of centenarians in the world.
I have another question. How do I contact you? Shoot us an email at team@themoai.org!

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